Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Getting Back Together With Your Ex After A Break Up

So you just broke up with your ex and you're probably feeling really crappy. The break up didn't go smoothly and you both feel raw about it. You feel like you did everything you could to save it and yet, you're the "bad guy". That really sucks especially since the reason why you broke up with your ex in the first place is because you guys, at one point, stopped appreciating and loving each other.

You're still in love though. It hurts to know that you won't be with your ex anymore. It hurts like crazy. I've been there. But to be honest, this may be the answer that you've been looking for. Breaking up with your ex is rough, but it does give you guys the opportunity to think things over. You both need the space. That much is true. Here are a few easy things to do to help clear your mind and get you on the track to getting back with your ex.

1. Find Your Zen
Seriously, you'll need to find balance. I know that at first breaking up with your ex is hard. But you must do everything within your power to regain control and focus on balance. If not, you'll walk around feeling lop-sided all the time.

2. Be The Bigger (Wo)Man
All this means is, take the first step to repairing the damage that has been done. Yes, that means you need to take the initiative and apologize first. Even if you were right the WHOLE time, you need to apologize. This way, your ex will know that you have really taken their feelings into consideration.

3. Talk To Your Friends
This is actually a pretty important step. Since you're still hurt about breaking up with your ex, you'll want to really open up and talk to someone about it. This is going to help you diffuse the problems you've faced with them. Let's be honest. In the heat of the moment, we're not really considering the others' feelings, nor do we care (at that moment). So being angry blinded you from the problems. Talking it out with a friend will help you see the problems more clearly.

4. Read Books To Escape
At first this sounds kind of silly, but you really do need to escape reality for a while. If you're constantly bogged down by the way that you feel, you'll never have the opportunity to rise up. Reading is an excellent way to escape the current problems you have. Who knows, you might even find real answers in your fictional tale ;).

And lastly, get someone else's opinion. Trying to work things on your own is one way to fight the demons of the relationship, however, remember that it took the two of you to break up. So if you're looking for some kind of solution, be persistent. The answers will come to you. It's called patience and not giving up. But first you must work on yourself. Getting back together with your ex after a break up will be quite a challenge if you're still flustered. For more incredible tips and helpful advice on dealing with your ex, please head on over the creator of the Magic Of Making Up book. It's an incredibly easy to read and fun book to have. It has practical and easy to follow advice that anyone can follow. This guy since 2008 has helped 50,000+ couples get back together, and I know he'll have the solution for you.

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